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Mluvte s nimi S posti\u017een\u00fdmi d\u011btmi je […]","datePublished":"2025-02-25","dateModified":"2023-04-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.lipaneuro.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.lipaneuro.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e4532b7f65738965bbad8697e5bd54c0628af7bffe8d3c856885c44d86978cee?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e4532b7f65738965bbad8697e5bd54c0628af7bffe8d3c856885c44d86978cee?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"lipaneuro.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.lipaneuro.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a307990_w2387_t1519125631.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.lipaneuro.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a307990_w2387_t1519125631.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.lipaneuro.cz\/kdyz-nekdo-ublizuje-diteti\/","wordCount":603,"articleBody":"V prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, kdo d\u00edt\u011bti ubli\u017euje a jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Pokud pouze jeden z rodi\u010d\u016f, t\u0159eba otec, matka m\u016f\u017ee pro d\u00edt\u011b hodn\u011b ud\u011blat. Hor\u0161\u00ed je situace, kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011bti ubli\u017euj\u00ed oba rodi\u010de.Pedagogov\u00e9 a v\u00fdchovn\u00ed poradci by m\u011bli v\u011bnovat zv\u00fd\u0161enou pozornost d\u011btem, kter\u00e9 vyr\u016fstaj\u00ed v problematick\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch.Mluvte s nimiS posti\u017een\u00fdmi d\u011btmi je t\u0159eba mluvit a povzbuzovat je, aby se se sv\u00fdmi bolestn\u00fdmi z\u00e1\u017eitky sv\u011b\u0159ily. Nejd\u0159\u00edv je t\u0159eba z\u00edskat jejich d\u016fv\u011bru. Tyto d\u011bti b\u00fdvaj\u00ed vystra\u0161en\u00e9 a uzav\u0159en\u00e9, boj\u00ed se o sv\u00e9 situaci mluvit. \u010c\u00edm hor\u0161\u00ed ubli\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed doma pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed, t\u00edm h\u016f\u0159e se jim o tom mluv\u00ed. Pokud v\u0161ak nedostanou mo\u017enost svoje probl\u00e9my vyj\u00e1d\u0159it, pocity k\u0159ivdy a ubl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nar\u016fstaj\u00ed.Pokud d\u00edt\u011bti ubli\u017euje jeden z rodi\u010d\u016fDruh\u00fd rodi\u010d by se m\u011bl sna\u017eit t\u011b\u017ekou situaci v rodin\u011b d\u00edt\u011bti vysv\u011btlit. Je t\u0159eba pou\u017e\u00edt vhodnou formu, vhodn\u00fd jazyk a dob\u0159e zvolit dobu. Jestli\u017ee je otec z\u00e1visl\u00fd na alkoholu, matka m\u016f\u017ee d\u011btem vysv\u011btlit, \u017ee je tat\u00ednek nemocn\u00fd. Nem\u011bla by si p\u0159ed d\u011btmi na otce st\u011b\u017eovat a mluvit o n\u011bm \u0161patn\u011b. T\u00edm jen bolest d\u011bt\u00ed prohlubuje. Zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b synov\u00e9 nesou t\u011b\u017ece, kdy\u017e matka p\u0159ed nimi otce zneva\u017euje. Dcer\u00e1m zase ubli\u017euje, kdy\u017e otec poni\u017euje matku a chov\u00e1 se k n\u00ed hrub\u011b.Pomoc pot\u0159ebuje cel\u00e1 rodinaNesta\u010d\u00ed pom\u00e1hat jen d\u00edt\u011bti. Je t\u0159eba \u0159e\u0161it nep\u0159\u00edznivou situaci v cel\u00e9 rodin\u011b. Snaha odd\u011blit d\u00edt\u011b od rodiny by byla jen zdrojem dal\u0161\u00edho utrpen\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b pot\u0159ebuje oba rodi\u010de. Po\u0159\u00e1d je lep\u0161\u00ed nechat je v problematick\u00e9 rodin\u011b, ne\u017e ho o ni \u00fapln\u011b p\u0159ipravit. P\u0159ed\u00e1n\u00ed do p\u011bstounsk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de nebo dokonce do d\u011btsk\u00e9ho domova by m\u011blo n\u00e1sledovat jen v krajn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b.Nepodce\u0148ujte b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 starostiNejde jen o mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9 situace ubl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed. Dosp\u011bl\u00ed b\u00fdvaj\u00ed sami sebou tak zaujati, \u017ee nejsou schopni vn\u00edmat ka\u017edodenn\u00ed bolesti a probl\u00e9my d\u011bt\u00ed. Jsou p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010deni, \u017ee jejich d\u011bti maj\u00ed v\u0161echno a m\u011bly by b\u00fdt spokojen\u00e9. Dosp\u011bl\u00fdm jde hlavn\u011b o pen\u00edze a hmotn\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti. P\u0159edpokl\u00e1daj\u00ed, \u017ee d\u011btem jde o tot\u00e9\u017e. D\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm l\u00e1sku, pozornost, p\u0159ijet\u00ed, porozum\u011bn\u00ed, z\u00e1jem.\u0160ikana v d\u011btsk\u00e9m kolektivuD\u011btem neubli\u017euj\u00ed jen dosp\u011bl\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 vrstevn\u00edci. M\u016f\u017ee j\u00edt o v\u00fdsm\u011bch, poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo dokonce fyzick\u00e9 n\u00e1sil\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b to p\u0159ed rodi\u010di a vychovateli \u010dasto taj\u00ed. Rodi\u010de by m\u011bli d\u00edt\u011bti pozorn\u011b naslouchat.\u00a0 Pokud se d\u00edt\u011b boj\u00ed chodit do \u0161koly, m\u011bli by p\u00e1trat po d\u016fvodu. Je dobr\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nau\u010dit, jak se v takov\u00fdch situac\u00edch zachovat a kde hledat pomoc. D\u011bti bez rodinn\u00e9 podpory b\u00fdvaj\u00ed \u010dast\u00fdm ter\u010dem ubli\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed a zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed ze strany vrstevn\u00edk\u016f nebo jin\u00fdch dosp\u011bl\u00fdch. Pokud m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b oporu v rodi\u010d\u00edch a m\u016f\u017ee s nimi kdykoliv po\u010d\u00edtat, dok\u00e1\u017ee se snadn\u011bji ubr\u00e1nit a vyhledat pomoc dosp\u011bl\u00fdch.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.5\/5 - (13 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo ubli\u017euje d\u00edt\u011bti","item":"https:\/\/www.lipaneuro.cz\/kdyz-nekdo-ublizuje-diteti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]